Have you heard about the Law of Attraction? Who didn't? This is the basic principle of "The secret". (book and movie)

Almost everybody heard of it, read it, or watched it. The principle is the same in all books that are about this topic. Hold on! If you've read and watched it, why aren't you where you want to be? Why don't you have the perfect health, wealth, relationship, location, house, car, spause, kids, friends? Something is wrong...

What is it? What is the missing piece? In this article I will reveal you and give you the solution. Theory and principles are nothing else just theories. Most people simply can't put them into practice, part of their everyday life, make new habits. Why? Because change is hard. You exist on your present thoughts, circumstances, habits because they are known, you get used to them, they are familiar to you, this is your routine. Any change (even improvement) can be scary, because it is unknown, unfamiliar, new. So basically your obstacle is, that you don't put the principles part of your everyday life because of these reasons.

What is the solution?
Probably you need help with this, otherwise you would already life your perfect life. Ok, what kind of help do you need? You read the book, you are journalling, meditating, saying the affirmations, reading other self-help books, go to seminars, buy new courses, take part on online workshops, etc. We can state that more information is not the solution. You have already gained the necessary information. The solution is to put them into practice, part of your everyday life. Ok, but how?

There is a force that wants you to do it, move forward and take the next step. This is your goal, your motivation, your urge, your wish, your desire. And there is an opposite force of this: your comfort, your familiarity with your present (and past) situation- even if it is bad, your fear of new and unknown, fear of others' opinion. The 2nd force is stronger than the 1st one, that's why you are stuck, or take one step ahead and 2 steps back.

The solution is to strengthen the 1st force, and weaken the 2nd one. Everybody has fear, but the level of fear what matters. Fear protects you from dangerous situations, which is a good thing. But it also protects you from your possible gain, chance to win and success.